Tantric Touch is a form of bodywork that promotes healing on a deep level by using touch, sensuality and eroticism. It originated many thousands of years ago in the region we now call India. Tantric Touch is a sacred practice you usually do with your intimate partner and therefore, must be deeply honoured and respected. It’s also a rare opportunity in Cairns. As far as I know, no other male offers it here.
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Tantric Touch is very personal, sensual, intimate and enjoyable. It’s also sometimes erotic, but doesn't result in either party ‘having sex’.
The stated intention is to give and receive pleasure whilst honouring each other in mind, body and spirit. I help you build pleasurable, erotic feelings and spread them throughout you body, culminating in a powerful, peak erotic experience.
What follows is intended to paint a picture of what I’ve experienced during Tantric Touch sessions in the past. But remember, every session is unique and original, so the format and experience does vary according to needs, wants and whims.
As my training has been with male genitalia, I only work with clients who have a penis. If you have female genitalia, I would suggest you bring a partner with you and I coach your partner how to practice tantric touch for you.
To set the scene: firstly, over a cuppa (I buy in herbal aphrodisiac blends to help support the mood), we would both discuss the process and agree on our comfort levels and boundaries. I might then suggest a range of essential oils, from which you can choose your favourites to be added to your individual oil blend. Aphrodisiac oils are usually suggested to support the erotic mood we’re creating, or, we might go with a pre-blended mix I’ve prepared beforehand. Your choice.
We get payment out of the way now. You won’t feel like dealing with finances at the end of the session.
Smudging or Puja happens next, usually with sage smoke. Smudging is done in many indigenous cultures as a form of spiritual cleansing. A stick of dried sage is lit and its pleasant-smelling smoke is wafted around each of our bodies using a sandalwood fan. It’s intended to clear and cleanse away anything that might otherwise hamper your experience. I smudge you and then I show you how to smudge me.
Depending on the level of session you’ve chosen, we’d either shower together for the body scrubs, using exfoliation mitts — which you get to keep — or, you shower by yourself.
TANTRIC YOGA (only included with Deluxe and Deluxe Plus sessions, not included with Basic session)
I’d then invite you to relax with me on the futon bed (a comfy, cushioned mattress at floor level) where I instruct you in doing some partner yoga stretching with me; this helps us both relax and connect with each other. The stretching also opens up our energy systems in preparation for pranayama (breathing practices).
Pranayama is also done with close intimate contact. Controlling and cultivating the breath charges both of us with lots of energy. I’ll teach you the ‘charging breath’, utilised at pivotal points during the bodywork session, to help you contain, generate, circulate and raise your energy. The charging breath is a tantra yoga breathing technique, which helps to contain, amplify, spread and raise erotic energy from your genitals into the rest of your body.
THE BIG DRAW (included in all session levels)
After pranayama and before the bodywork session starts, I'll show and teach you how to do The Big Draw. This is tantra's alternative to a conventional orgasm. Instead of ejaculating, you’ll learn how to retain your semen and transmute the orgasmic energy around the genitals (aka ‘ojis’) and raise it up into the rest of your body, for a different and more powerful peak erotic experience. It has the potential to literally change your mental state into something more akin to the bliss state you may have experienced after a particularly good yoga or meditation session.
TANTRIC BODYWORK (included in all session levels)
Tantric bodywork is usually done with both of us naked, (if nudity feels inappropriate, either one or both can opt to wear briefs). There’s lots of intimate, physical contact. We position ourselves in some very sensual ways, which gives us access to each other’s bodies and helps us feel warm, comfortable, connected, sexy and supported. For instance, in ‘the frog position’, I sit cross-legged behind you while you’re lying face-down with your legs wrapped around my waist. This means your groin is resting across my lap, which is very erotic. Groin to groin: who doesn’t want that these days! Both of our ‘power centres’ literally touching! OMG!
The bodywork session involves long, slow, smooth, oiled strokes along your back and limbs, incorporating the charging breath.
After a while you would turn over onto your back. ‘Yab Yum’ is a position where you sit in my lap with your legs wrapped around my waist. This position gives me access to the front of your body and enables both of us to see what is going on. Straddle is another position where you’d be lying on your back and I’d be kneeling facing you with my knees either side of your thighs or groin, from where I can spread the oil over your torso. You get to see everything happening; if you so desire, there's a large mirror behind me too! I have a sexy yoga butt. You’ll want to see that in action.
Tantric Touch is intended to be erotic but, instead of using sexual energy to orgasm with an ejaculation, Tantric Touch helps to generate and spread powerful, sexual energy up into the receiver’s whole body. Tantric Touch differs from conventional sex in that neither ejaculate, and there’s no penile penetration into any body parts. Rather, the goal is to stimulate your erotic energies and then help you move those around the rest of your body. Amplifying and spreading sexual energy leads to heightened states of sensual pleasure.
Imagine having your desires for touch, eroticism and physical pleasuring more than satiated. To the point where you’re literally overflowing with satisfaction. It’s a way to ‘top up’ your needs for touch in a world where it’s often either denied, metered out, or disappointingly inadequate. This level of satiation can have profoundly beneficial effects.
The bodywork sequence lasts for over an hour, as we move through numerous sexy, fun and interesting positions.
It culminates in a peak erotic experience: The Big Draw!
After the Big Draw, there’s a period of embraces, where we both hold each other in various, sensual positions, this helps to integrate the energy that’s been stimulated, cultivated, redistributed and reabsorbed throughout the process. It’s done with the intention of fostering a feeling of being loved and honoured as a fellow human.
Next, there’s the option to take a warm shower separately or together to wash off the excess oil and cleanse on an energetic level.
We’d then have time for reflection, discussion, and re-booking.
I’ve described what’s happened with other clients, but each person is an individual, and thus, will respond in their own unique way. Each session is also unique. All responses are valid. In other words, you can’t get it wrong. Tantra develops present mind awareness and usually results in an amazing state of excitement, joy and bliss! Having said that, it can also be an opportunity to heal old sexual/emotional wounds. So, sometimes tears are released during or after the process, however, a feeling of joyous expansion usually replaces any momentary feelings of sadness.
Open communication is maintained throughout the whole process so that safety is ensured and boundaries are respected and that, as much as possible, all involved are giving/getting what they need.
Intensifying an erotic experience through Tantric Touch takes you to high levels of enjoyment, thus opening you up to experience life in a more relaxed and passionate way. Tantric Touch can teach you there’s much more to eroticism and sensuality than sex alone can offer! In this way, it can be a vehicle for personal development and deepening intimate relationships.
I hope this gives you a good understanding of what you’re likely to experience. I’m also happy to answer any more questions you might have.
The Basic 90-minute session gives us time for
preparatory sage smudging
aromatherapy oil selection
full body tantric bodywork session
The Deluxe 120-minute session (recommended) gives us time for all the above, plus
nude showering, body scrub with aromatherapy shower gels and towelling off — a pampering experience for you, and a nice way to connect with each other
tantric yoga partner stretches — a sexy way to release tightness from your body, with my physical support, in some close contact positions
spooning, embracing and debriefing after the tantric bodywork session
optional shared shower at the end of the session
The Deluxe Plus 150-minute Tantric Yoga, Massage and Spa package includes these extras
At commencement, a 30-minute epsom salts spa therapy session, including therapeutic touch, stretching and embraces focussing on any areas you like.
Two to three days after each session, I reconnect via your choice of either text, phone or email to check in with how you’ve processed and integrated your tantric experience.
If you feel the need, I’m happy to discuss your options with you via email or in a free phone call.
CONSENT IS SEXY
Because of the intimate nature of the activities we are all engaging in, consent is vital at all stages of the Tantric experience. All parties must be comfortable with what’s occurring at all times. We talk about boundaries and comfort levels including no-go areas, at the start of each session to set comfort parameters in place, ensure each person is involved in the most appropriate way for them, and all are getting what they desire from the experience. However, the consent given at the start of the session is not carved in stone, and can be renegotiated at any point of the session to either reduce or increase the level of intimacy as may be desired. This way, each session remains safe for all parties throughout its entire length and we avoid overstepping each other’s comfort zones and boundaries. As an added safety measure, I check in with you at various key moments during the session to make sure everything is proceeding in the way you desire. I’ll also flag anything you might be doing that raises concerns for me.
I saw Gregory twice while visiting Canberra for work. I booked a deep tissue and a tantric bodywork session. The tantric session was mind blowing! This was no doubt one of the best massages I’ve had in my life. It relaxed my muscles and cleaned my soul. His studio is clean, professional and full of interesting things to look at. Gregory is very friendly, masculine and easy to connect with. I recommend him 100%.
Rod, 39, Sydney, NSW
I booked the 120-minute tantric bodywork session with Gregory. If you are interested in exploring tantra, this is a worthwhile investment. From the time of initial inquiry to the session follow up, Gregory was very professional. He explains in detail what you can expect with the information from his website provided prior to the session and then in person at the beginning of the session. The session was like a mini-workshop of tantra where Gregory freely shared his great knowledge of the topic. Gregory checks in on you regularly during the session to tweak things if needed. Such was the impact of the session, it took me about a day to process. I then knew I needed to book another session. The second session was even better than the first. This session was a more tailored experience as I knew from the first one which parts were really awesome! Bookending my trip to Cairns with the 120-minute deluxe plus tantric touch session was an excellent way to start and end a trip. Gregory was very generous with both his knowledge and time in both sessions. A gentle soul with talented body who is very easy to connect with. I would highly recommend Gregory.
Trevor, 56, Melbourne, VIC
I’ve been feeling pretty well after the massage. Had a lot of energy and felt really relaxed. Thank you for the wonderful experience. It was amazing to experience tantric bodywork.
Ivan, 42, Sydney, NSW