Sensual Touch is a style of bodywork I’ve developed by combining elements of Hawaiian, Body Electric and Tantric therapy. It’s said “the mind is our biggest sex organ”. Pop that into any search engine and see what comes up! Sensual Touch can certainly take you on a journey into your mental desires.
Given it’s very intimate, consent is paramount. Before anyone touches anyone, we discuss in detail what the session will involve. You’ll be given an opportunity to outline any ‘no-go’ areas, and request special things you’d like to experience, e.g., some people prefer heavy or light touch. Some don’t like their feet being included, while others request a focus on the feet! (I have Reflexology training.)
Mutual consent is sought at every stage of the process, so each is comfortable with what’s happening. At any point, boundaries can be renegotiated as per your needs, so you can relax into the process, feeling confident nothing untoward will occur.
I’ll be clear in the ways I’m comfortable for you to touch me too.
Nudity is optional. You can choose to undress to your level of comfort, from keeping your underwear on to removing some, or
all of it. I’m generally fine with being nude myself, or undressing to whatever level you desire.
WHAT'S A SESSION LIKE?
Picture yourself lying butt naked on the treatment table. Low lights. Soft music of your choice. An aromatherapy essential oil blend of your own choosing. And my forearms, hands, knees, chest and other body parts, taking you on a sensual journey
through your body.
We’ll explore deep touch with thumbs and elbows, firm strokes of my hands over your body, and superlight tracing with the hairier parts of my body, all over your skin. At times you’ll feel my breath on your body; sometimes warming, other times cooling. I’ll move your limbs at the joints and stretch the attached muscles to release deep-held tensions. You’ll be completely satisfied with how thorough this approach is, as it satiates your desires for all sorts of different touch, in all sorts of places! If you’re cool with it, even your genitals can be included in the experience.
I’m generally happy to allow you to touch me too, if it adds to your experience of connection and arousal.
WILL THIS LEAD TO US HAVING SEX OR ME HAVING AN ORGASM?
Whilst Sensual Therapy isn't a sexual experience, in that there’s no penetration of any sort, it’s often a sexy experience where you can enjoy your natural responses in a completely accepting and safe space, without judgement or shame.
We live in a world that continually puts pressure on us and the “acceptable” ways we can enjoy our sensuality and eroticism, with a lot of emphasis on the genitals and their “performance”. In addition, many have learned to stifle any noise their bodies want to make to express pleasure, and few know how to ask for what they want to experience sensually.
Be free of all that stuff, and simply allow your body to respond in a way that’s most appropriate at the time. Be as expressive as you like, as you go through your phases of sensation and excitement.
Bravely ask for the things you’d like to experience. I’m non-judgemental and open-minded and my scope’s wide. So, while I want say yes to anything, I do have boundaries. That said, most of the time, you’ll get what you’re wanting. Most of my clients report feelings of deep relaxation and bliss after their sessions.
WHY DO YOU CALL THIS ‘THERAPY’?
Some of us hold emotions and memories, “locked in our tissues”, connected to the erotic life we’ve lived, or yearned for, but denied ourselves. The touch of a consciously connected person, with positive intent and concern for your wellbeing, can be the key to unlocking those memories and emotions, and act as a catalyst for re-experiencing and coming to terms with
whatever’s not been fully addressed in your past.
For example, Sensual Therapy might be a way forward for a person who’s denied themselves sensual pleasure for a long time. It could be a way for a survivor of sexual abuse to work through some of the issues they’re facing; an opportunity for someone who’s always wondered what it might be like to experience the touch of a male therapist; or a way for someone to explore their
sensual desires in a safe, non-judgemental space.
In this way, Sensual Therapy can offer a doorway into your personal growth and healing, if that’s what’s needed at the time.
Of course, it can simply be a fun and enjoyable way to experience one’s sensuality. Which is very valid.
HOW LONG ARE SESSIONS?
I offer four levels of treatment with Sensual Therapy.
THE ECONOMY SENSUAL
A 45-minute session, including self-shower before treatment. A nude bodywork treatment for half your body. Upper/ lower body, or you decide which areas are included and excluded. Optional second self-shower after the treatment.
THE BASIC SENSUAL
A 60-minute session, including self-shower before and after treatment. A nude bodywork treatment for three-quarters or your body. You get to decide which areas are included and excluded.
THE DELUXE SENSUAL
A 90-minute session, including a shared nude shower experience with me, where I give you a full body scrub before your treatment using exfoliation gloves. A full body nude table treatment including any areas you like. A second shared nude shower experience with me with a full body scrub and optional embraces to finish. You have the option of keeping or recycling your exfoliation gloves.
DELUXE PLUS SENSUAL
A 120-minute treatment, including a shared nude shower experience with me, where I give you a full body scrub before your treatment using exfoliation gloves. A 30-minute epsom salts spa therapy session focussing on any areas you like. A full-body nude table treatment, including any areas you like. A second shared nude shower experience with body scrub with optional embraces. You have the option of keeping or recycling your exfoliation gloves.
I really encourage you to try this new modality I’ve created. I’m sure you’ll love receiving it as much as I love providing it.
I’m happy to answer any questions you might have about this style of therapy.
If you’re more into linking your sensuality with your spirituality, then tantric healing, tantric yoga and tantric bodywork may be the way to go. Read about those here.
Thanks so much again for the experience. I’m feeling much more connected to and confident with my sensuality. More confident and open in a safe space. And my muscles are much more relaxed and feeling much better too!
David, 39, Mittagong, NSW
I’ve been feeling light easy and happy, summed up by “terrific”. The main benefit has been that I’m feeling good about myself, because I still have the capacity to be a sexual being (a very nice thing to know when one is older). Cheers,
John 78, Sydney, NSW
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